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The Coaching Habit - Book Review

Controlling our "advice monster" and focusing on questions that help people discover their own paths

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Core Message from “The Coaching Habit”

In “The Coaching Habit - Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever” by Michael Bungay Stanier, the author emphasizes the power of asking the right questions rather than giving advice. When someone reaches out for help, it’s often more effective to engage them with thoughtful questions that encourage them to find their own solutions.

Key questions from the book include:

  1. What’s on your mind?
  2. What else?
  3. What’s the real challenge here for you?
  4. If you’re saying yes to this, what are you saying no to?

Author advocates for controlling our “advice monster” and focusing on questions that help people discover their own paths. Sharing advice and wisdom is valuable, but only when done in the right dosage and at the right time.

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